i have missed the old blog. but i must say...i have NOT been just lazily lounging around. where to start, where to start? the last post i made (which was an embarassingly long time ago) announced our happy engagement. At that time, we were gearing up for baby EC in October, followed by a winter wedding December 5...wrapping up a solid packed 2009 for us. my my my how God laughs at our plans! Let me start at the beginning....and apologize in advance for the lengthiness (is that a word? i care not.) of this post. Anyways....one morning in late May, I woke up to ankles that could not even fit into my shoes...so off to the doctor I went. An hour later, I left with a perscription, strict diet orders, and a diagnosis of hypertension onset by pregnancy. Skip a month ahead...and find me at the doctor AGAIN...failing my glucose test. After the 2nd test I failed, I left the doctor's office with MORE goodies: yet another perscription, a sugar checker thingy, and yet another diagnosis: Gestational Diabetes. Trying to make a long story a little shorter here, skip to August 7, 2009 (the eve of my fave cousin's wedding, in which i am to be the Proxy at the rehearsal dinner!): i have an appointment with my favorite doctor, whose office feels like my second home at this point, and luckily my mom is in town, due to the afore mentioned wedding. She accompanies me to the appointment, and then accompanies me to the hospital, where I am sent for observation once my blood pressure is checked. Luckily, I only have to stay for a few hours until my blood pressure comes down, and I am able to be the most gorgeous (and swollen) Proxy you have ever seen!
The next day, we attended the wedding...and man was it hot!!! and man was i swollen! I think this is the last picture of me actually with my hair done & makeup done, and cute clothes...until the baby shower given for me AFTER EC was born!
After that brief stay in Labor & Delivery, I was sent BACK to L&D 3 more times for observation. The third time occurred somewhere around August 20th...and this, my friends, was the beginning of the end. After the doctor decided I could go home, even though my blood pressure had not come down to a level he was comfy cozy with, he informed me that I would not be returning to work until after my 6-week vacay with my little angel. Seriously??? seriously. So i go home...and kevin takes me out for a "Last Supper" of sorts the next night, and then I spend the rest of the week on the couch, thinking..."Maybe if I am a good little bed-rester, doc will let me go back to work at LEAST half days until October...because there is NO WAY EC is coming until October...right??" Ha. Again....God laughing at my plans. On the morning of Thursday, August 27, 2009...I head to the doctor for a BP check...and am PROMPTLY sent to the hospital...and am told that more than likely, i will not leave the hospital without a baby. Um..excuse me?? you are keeping me in the hospital until OCTOBER?? i am so confused. That day was a blur of IV sticks, urine tests (sorry, TMI), allergic reactions (pennicillin...who knew?), and, finally Benadryl. After that, i do not remember any of the rest of that day. Except that I made Kevin bring me food. Twice. I love my hubby :). The next day plans were made to monitor my urine and see if I was in danger of becoming preeclamptic. Skip forward a couple of days...August 29, 2009. My family is here and the doctor has decided it will be a good idea to go ahead and induce labor...since my blood pressure is nowhere near normal. YAY! i don't have to stay in the hospital until October! So I am prepped, catheterized (again, sorry, TMI) and ready to get this show on the road. After much, much Demerol...the next day I have made ZERO progress. Time for an Epidural (which was WONDERFUL) and then I am rushed to have a C-section. Anyone who has heard a C-section is "just a little bit of pressure"...you've been misinformed. i hated every minute of it...except the part where my sweet little girl was born :) It literally felt like someone was sacking groceries inside of me. Weird, I know..but true. Anyways...did I mention the date in which this took place? It was none other than August 30th, which happens to be my hubby's birthday...so the two loves of my life share the same day of birth! How sweet is that?? :) Anyways....here is my little girl..shortly after birth at 33 weeks gestation:
Shortly after this picture was taken, we were told she would be sent to River Oaks NICU in Jackson. Dr. O stressed that there was nothing WRONG, but if something were to go wrong, he wanted her to be there. She was 7 weeks early, and only weighed 4 lbs. While in the nursery, she was having trouble breathing. It hurts my heart to even type these words...here our first hello as mommy and baby...and also our first goodbye...
After 3 days in the hospital with my daddy taking great care of me, we loaded up and went to join my mom and Kevin, who were there with EC...they even followed the ambulance ( and sort of made the ambulance follow THEM a couple of times..). After 3 weeks spent in Jackson, sleeping in a hospital bed, and Kevin sleeping in a chair...we were FINALLY allowed to bring our little girl home. She is doing so great and has had no problems at ALL :) we are so in love with her.
Hard to believe she is 4 months old and has just had her first Christmas (in which she had an ear infection, but nevertheless, was fabulous!), and her first New Years (she did NOT make it until midnight...but neither did Kevin & I...ahh the life of parenthood :) ). We even went for our 4-month shots today: she weights almost 13 lbs, is 22 inches long, and her head circ is 16 inches. We are starting rice cereal with a SPOON tonight...we'll see how that goes! Anyways...I hope to update the blog a lot more now that we have a computer at home. Things are so right in our lives and our little home is filled with so much love!
Nighty night!
-e